• HomeLife

    I Like. A List

    I like  . . . . . . Saturdays spent with friends at an apple orchard. Evenings when kids are so exhausted they head to bed an hour earlier than usual and then they fall right asleep and I am left in a quiet home with my oldest daughter at work and my husband on a business trip, leftover fudge made by Julie and Netflix. Impromptu Sunday afternoon picnics downtown on an incredibly peaceful and perfect-weather kind of day. Beautiful handmade cloth napkins that match, gifted to me from my friend.  (Even if the reason she gave them to me was because my own handmade ones were lacking in both…

  • HomeLife

    Autumn Crisp

    The hope of cooler weather. Nights on the porch with a sweatshirt on. Glorious afternoon sun whose warmth feels like an invitation. Hello Autumn. So good to see you. Yellow flowers gathered by the armloads from the field out front. Warm glow of a campfire. Snuggling under the covers in the early a.m. with a couple of sweet intruders. Apple picking and apple eating and apple baking and all things apple. Oh Autumn – you must know that I love you. Bringing the outside in. Windows still open. It smells different.  Better.   Can you hug a season? Pumpkins and the smell of cinnamon and holding a warm beverage in…

  • HomeLife,  HomeSchooling

    Wildwood: Creative Narration

    I don’t give my children tests. Well, at least not my elementary student children. They don’t receive a multiple choice, true/false, fill in the blank piece of paper when they complete a chapter about Columbus or learn about narwhals in their science book. (They don’t ever really use textbooks either, but that’s another story.) As an advocate of a Charlotte Mason education, we employ the use of narration in our daily school routine. Narration means just what it sounds like. We read a chapter, learn about a subject, finish a novel – and when we do that – I ask the kids to tell me the story back in their…

  • HomeLife,  Otto Fox Wilder

    three is a funny number. and age. more a funny age than number really. three is funny.

    You might remember that I think my little Willow is a funny little person. She still is. But lately my boy Otto Fox is giving her a run for her money. (Which leads me to think, maybe it’s not so much the kid as the age.  Three is just plain old amusing.) As I tuck Otto into bed most nights I still sing to him his song – “Forever Young”.  And he usually requests that I instead sing him the song that apparently he wishes was his song – “Beautiful Boy”. Like I said, he’s three now, and for as long as he has been communicating he asks for the…

  • Bergen Hawkeye,  Field Trip,  HomeLife

    Keigley CAMPaign: Hamilton Branch

    After we came up with the idea back in May, our first camping trip was to the lovely Lake Jocassee. (Seriously picturesque mountain views on this lake.  Truly crowded camping experience because those views are so lovely.) Somehow Bergen received the luck of the draw and was allowed to choose our next camping destination. You know he loves birds so when Hawkeye read that Hamilton Branch State Park was well known for its unique bird sightings, his mind was already made up. The drive down closer to the Georgia state line was a bit farther than the drive across Highway 11.  (And not nearly as scenic.) But the campsites were…

  • Field Trip,  Keiglets

    Keigley CAMPaign: Oconee State Park

    Last weekend was our camping weekend.  Oconee State Park. It was a good weekend. And I plan to go backwards in time and recap each state park visit.  Eventually. But I jotted down this during our weekend as we were hanging out and enjoying the incredibly perfect weather. ________________ 8:17 p.m. Otto is resting in the hammock. Riley’s reading by flashlight in the tent. I’m writing this, eating raisins, staring at the fire. Kevin is leading the others on a dark Frog Hunt. Listening, shining the light. Two kids are already holding amphibians in their increasingly filthy hands.  (Nails embedded with dark dirt that has at least twelve more hours…

  • Field Trip,  HomeLife,  Keiglets

    and did you know this?

    Guess what? You can get almost all of your children in a cool location. You can have them dressed in Mommy-approved-photo-attire. You can have enough time and patience and presence of mind to attempt a stylish photograph. And you can still blow it.

  • HomeLife

    My Friend T.S.

    Thrift stores have really become my friends. (Can a store be one’s friend?  I guess if I declare a store to be my friend, then a store is indeed my friend.  End of discussion.) As I was saying, thrift stores are my friends. I mean, this story isn’t as impressive as the Frye Boot Discovery of 2012.  I don’t actually expect to top that story this year.  Maybe not even next year, but you never know. But I did find some little treasures last week. We’d like to bike a local trail near our house.  The majority of our children’s heads have no helmets to protect them.  (Remember Mosely’s bike…

  • Bergen Hawkeye

    No kidding!

    Maybe it’s the lack of sleep. Or school being in session here at Wildwood. Or just everything. But I think my boy Hawkeye said it perfectly. I was waking him up one morning recently. He was stretching, fighting the idea of the day’s beginning. He yawned. Rolled over. Pulled the blanket over his head. Pulled it back off. Looked at me through half-opened, sleepier than you can imagine eyes and asked, “What in the world happened to yesterday?”

  • HomeLife

    Sleep deprivation looks like this

    I’ve been trying to tame my ways this school year. I’m getting up early. I don’t love the sound of my alarm and I don’t love the noise five roosters make (I don’t think they actually understand the definition of the word dawn.) and I don’t love getting out of my cozy bed. But I do love claiming the quiet of the morning. I do love our porch when the sun is rising and there’s fog on the mountain. The problem is …. I also love the night. I love sitting in the dark living room and watching “Raising Hope” with Kevin and Riley. I love finishing up projects that…

  • HomeLife

    a crib. re-born.

    Otto is three. He was a baby. Now he’s not. Last week he graduated from the crib in which he had been sleeping his entire young life to an official “big boy” bed.  (Generously given to him by our friends.  Thanks Sunshine!) (I mean, he’s giving out interviews left and right these days.  I guess he deserves a bed for that handsome big boy golden head of his.) Tucking my Fox into his big boy bed meant there was an unnecessarily large piece of furniture in the corner of the boys already Lego-crowded room. It had to go. And I’m not one to let furniture rearranging needs sit around for…

  • HomeLife,  Otto Fox Wilder

    The Interview Hath Returneth

    It has been too long. And I’m not certain if I’ve ever even really tried this stunt with my Wilde Fox of a son. But I used to do a handful of these simple little interviews with my kids. Mainly because it cracked me up so. And since it’s been so long – tonight I’m interviewing my last little man who is quickly morphing into a big boy. Here we go ……. What’s your name? Otto. [He’s sitting in a chair beside me, blanket draped across and over his shoulder – comfort/cape style.] How do you spell that? O-T-T-O. Who do you live with, son? With you guys! [My subject…

  • HomeLife,  HomeSchooling

    this might be a rant. or it might be the truth. or it could be both.

    I’m not anti-higher education. I’m really not.  (Although I think you already know how I feel about a system.) Shoot, I loved college.  It was a good time.  (Which promotes my point exactly.) I love learning. I mean, I’m dedicating my very life to the process, you know. But the more I teach, the more I learn, the more I realize that what I want to produce in our homeschool is not educated adults, per se.  Not diploma-holding citizens.  Not specific-abbreviations-past-your-given-name people. I want to produce learners. Thinkers. Imaginers. People who know how to find information and who want to get to that information. People who can think. And I’m…