let them play
Sometimes I feel so guilty when I don’t “do” school.
When hours creep by and we haven’t read a book, drawn imitation Picassos, blown up a volcano, mapped out the radius of the Mayflower in our front yard, explored geography, performed interpretive dance movements to Mozart’s compositions, crafted an afghan from the hair of goats .. .
Ha – like we’re doing any of those things!
But still, I feel guilty for all that I should be doing.
(And sometimes it’s the exact right kind of guilt that I should feel. I know that.)
But sometimes, sometimes, it’s not.
And a friend reminded me, a friend who has seven lovely children and homeschooled the first one successfully right into college, said to me what another friend frequently has reminded her. (How I love the community of women.)
“Let them play. They won’t always want to play together. They will not always desire that.
Sometimes.
Let them play.”
2 Comments
Sally
Today is that day. It seems like many days, they can't seem to play 2 minutes together without fighting, so when a day comes and they disappear together after breakfast (without even doing their table chores. I know I need to haul them back, but…) I haven't seen any of them for most of the day, and so far there's been a trip out to eat, a trip to the beach,….right now it sounds like they are rebuilding the entire second floor. I might need to check on that…be right back.
LaceyKeigley
I think we live in the same house sometimes.