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Ordinary work, which is what most of us do most of the time, is ordained by God every bit as much as is the extraordinary. All work done for God is spiritual work and therefore not merely a duty but a holy privilege.
- Elisabeth Elliot

HomeLife, Keigley Approved Recipes, Otto Fox Wilder

five finds friday (the worst jeans you’ll ever see, Otto says something funny and Dolly is the best)

Has this week been kind to you? This week has handed me a stack of “you messed this up” and “hey, here’s another bill” and “whoa – how did it…

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HomeSchooling

Should I Stop Homeschooling?

For years I’ve said a handful of absolutes about my homeschooling experience. (I do like to speak in absolutes, although I am working hard to remove them from my vernacular.…

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HomeLife

share the good

The statistics are staggering. The world is a mess. Bad stuff happens a lot. True. True. True. But also. There are good people too. Kind people. Friends who pick up…

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  • HomeLife

    How To Find Me Now

    / August 29, 2025

    Hello dear friends! There is a treasure trove of story here – photos and memories and bits and pieces of my heart. I’m still writing and sharing. But I’ve tried to make it easier for you (and certainly easier for me) on a new platform. It’s called Substack and you can find it right here. The writing is the same.…

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    Lists: The Only Way I Ever (Sometimes) Get Stuff Done

    August 26, 2020

    five finds friday – (Congaree, more soup, another Otto saying & sunshine)

    April 12, 2019

    Noonday: Tonight!

    February 24, 2020
  • Bergen Hawkeye,  HomeLife

    … typing therapy …

    / June 4, 2023

    I haven’t picked up a pen or logged into a post in over a month. Which, incidentally, means I have not really processed or worked through a solid feeling in about that long either. Who could? Who can? I have never understood people who say, “I have no regrets.” I HAVE A MILLION REGRETS. I regret wasted time and wasted…

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    weekend ramble (the wrong date. the wrong time. the right pants.)

    April 22, 2019

    Five Finds Friday (last first day, a giant sweatshirt and tomatoes)

    August 14, 2020

    five finds friday (college talk, meeting the Okee Dokee Brothers)

    October 11, 2019
  • HomeLife,  HomeSchooling,  Keiglets

    oh, the month ahead. and the month now.

    / April 28, 2023

    If I could draw a picture of me right now, what I feel like somewhere inside, it would probably look a little like some Monet version of me because I feel more like an impression lately than a solid shape. And I’d probably have my hands at my head, maybe pulling my hair in two directions and shouting, “THERE IS…

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    five finds friday (there’s beautiful bags and blast from the past soda and kind students)

    April 24, 2020

    The Deal With Me & Low Cost Flights

    November 24, 2022

    five finds friday (superstore, fly fishing, sloppy joes)

    January 3, 2020
  • Affiliate,  Field Trip,  Story

    Paris: Our Trip & Tips

    / April 4, 2023

    It didn’t begin with a lifelong goal of seeing the Eiffel Tower. It started with an email alert. “Low cost fairs from Asheville to Paris” It was an update from my Going account – the same account that helped me take my London to London for her graduation gift last year. It was back in October and the flight was…

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    five finds friday. snow cream. snow tubing. London’s cute hair and laughter from junior high.

    February 12, 2021

    Guatemala: Day One

    March 1, 2023

    I’m over here …

    November 3, 2020
  • Field Trip

    Guatemala: Day Two

    / March 8, 2023

    (Will you be patient with me if these posts take weeks?) It’s another senior season of BUSY. My first baby boy is about to graduate and I cannot allow myself to spend too much time pondering that just yet. And, if you’re counting, that leaves only TWO kids in high school. Our numbers game is weird lately. Back to Guatemala…

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    five finds friday (ryder dresses up & good friends are worth everything)

    February 1, 2019

    the burrow: a dining room tour

    May 15, 2019

    I just want to do it all.

    October 21, 2020
  • Field Trip

    Guatemala: Day One

    / March 1, 2023

    It seems I’ve hardly stopped moving since our plane ride from Guatemala ended and London picked us up late that night at the Greenville airport. (Pretty sure I sat behind Pedro Pascal on one of our flights. I mean, okay. I’m not pretty sure. I’m just pretend sure. It looked like him. Sort of. I can’t explain why he’d be…

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    parenting: the slipping away

    September 2, 2019

    Lists: The Only Way I Ever (Sometimes) Get Stuff Done

    August 26, 2020

    school planning over here …

    July 1, 2020
  • Piper Finn Willow

    friday afternoon thoughts.

    / February 17, 2023

    When I started composing this post in my head, I was in a MOOD and all of the ideas in my mind were very very funny to me. I think the mood has passed. Of course, that mood was likely induced by the physical funk I am still in post-Guatemala trip (I came home with a lovely sort of head…

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    Five Finds Friday (Saylor’s reading and Ryder got a haircut)

    September 18, 2020

    My Friend Mary & The Beauty of Showing Up

    April 23, 2019

    five finds friday (shimmery skirts & strawberries)

    April 17, 2020
  • HomeLife

    here we go …

    / February 3, 2023

    Well February came up real fast on us now, didn’t it? Over the last few weeks I have: Lived life with five teenagers. Readjusted to having London home again as she begins local college classes. And by readjusted, I actually don’t really mean that. I love having her home and she’s been a fabulous help – dishes and meals and…

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    five finds friday (there’s beautiful bags and blast from the past soda and kind students)

    April 24, 2020

    five finds friday (lemon trees, Noonday parties, toasters, homemade mittens)

    February 7, 2020

    notes from the burrow. not in any particular order.

    March 25, 2020
  • Bergen Hawkeye,  God's Pursuit of Me,  HomeLife,  HomeSchooling

    you can’t call it a mid-life crisis.

    / January 18, 2023

    I doubt I’m living until I’m 100. (And I’m mostly okay with that.) So I can’t fairly call All The Current Feelings mid-life related. In fact, it is possibly precisely because I recognize that I am no longer mid-life that I am feeling whatever it is I am feeling. Were those sentences helpful? Doubtful. Flannery O’Connor said, “I write because…

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    five finds friday (my weakness for hair products and my friends Jane & Walter and my kids reading classic novels)

    August 23, 2019

    state of the union – or an official sounding title for an unofficial style post

    June 27, 2017

    five finds friday (finn turns twelve, made for this podcast and mac & cheese)

    August 30, 2019
  • HomeLife

    the winter feels

    / January 11, 2023

    The thing about winter in South Carolina is that it’s not all that different from fall in South Carolina or spring in South Carolina, weather-wise. And that makes me sad. I need some snow. A crisp breeze. A forecast with low temperatures. A chill factor. I know I have chosen to live in the wrong part of the country to…

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    five finds friday (if, in fact, it actually IS friday)

    April 10, 2020

    five finds friday (avett. curl cream. views.)

    September 25, 2020

    my social dilemma

    September 16, 2020
  • Field Trip

    Going to Guatemala

    / January 3, 2023

    Guess what word is hard to spell? Guatemala. I’ve looked it up and let autocorrect help me way too many times. I think I finally remember that there’s an E after “guat” even though apparently my brain is desperate for it to be an A. Despite that tricky-to-me spelling, Bergen and Piper and I are heading to Guatemala in February.…

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    weekend ramble (soccer starts & the sun is back)

    March 11, 2019

    Six Steps to Hiking & Adventuring With Kids

    July 3, 2019

    five finds friday

    April 5, 2019
  • HomeLife

    that magic moment

    / December 19, 2022

    Imagine you live in a place where snow is a rarity. Say, South Carolina, for example. And you somehow missed the news of the potential snow and the mad dash of Southerners to grab up every loaf of bread and gallon of milk as if we might actually be trapped in our homes by the snow. So there you are.…

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    five finds (asleep with a book, love anyway, i like big sinks)

    February 22, 2019

    parenting, continued

    March 21, 2019

    mid-week ramble. is that a thing?

    September 3, 2020
  • Affiliate,  HomeSchooling

    The Nomadic Professor: A Timberdoodle Review

    / December 15, 2022

    You know the routine. This is a sponsored post. I received this product at no cost to test and to review. But that’s the end. The words and thoughts and opinions are completely my own. _________________ Just like ALL of my own life, homeschooling has shifted and changed in the seasons of our family’s life. I only have older students…

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    five finds friday (lemon trees, Noonday parties, toasters, homemade mittens)

    February 7, 2020

    Discipline of Gratitude

    February 12, 2019

    The Right Word.

    July 20, 2021
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