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Ordinary work, which is what most of us do most of the time, is ordained by God every bit as much as is the extraordinary. All work done for God is spiritual work and therefore not merely a duty but a holy privilege.
- Elisabeth Elliot

HomeLife

I just want to do it all.

And also. I want to do nothing. Is this the human condition? Or is this just the working mom condition? Or the pandemic year condition? It’s a painfully beautiful afternoon…

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HomeLife, HomeSchooling

spring madness. it has descended upon us.

Distracted. Unable to complete tasks I begin. Unmotivated. Moving from one space to the next. I remember feeling this way at the end of my senior year of college. (Probably…

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HomeLife

some tiny epiphanies via my quarantine education

Even if we didn’t try in the least, we’ve all learned something during this last month of stay at home, quarantine, shutdown and forced stillness. We’ve seen what was true…

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  • HomeLife

    How To Find Me Now

    / August 29, 2025

    Hello dear friends! There is a treasure trove of story here – photos and memories and bits and pieces of my heart. I’m still writing and sharing. But I’ve tried to make it easier for you (and certainly easier for me) on a new platform. It’s called Substack and you can find it right here. The writing is the same.…

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    A Heart’s Home: Lost Valley Ranch

    June 21, 2020

    Five Finds Friday (Cadbury eggs & impulsive purchases)

    February 28, 2020

    you can’t call it a mid-life crisis.

    January 18, 2023
  • Bergen Hawkeye,  HomeLife

    … typing therapy …

    / June 4, 2023

    I haven’t picked up a pen or logged into a post in over a month. Which, incidentally, means I have not really processed or worked through a solid feeling in about that long either. Who could? Who can? I have never understood people who say, “I have no regrets.” I HAVE A MILLION REGRETS. I regret wasted time and wasted…

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    five finds friday (ukuleles & queso)

    January 10, 2020

    five finds friday (superstore, fly fishing, sloppy joes)

    January 3, 2020

    Five Finds Friday (last first day, a giant sweatshirt and tomatoes)

    August 14, 2020
  • HomeLife,  HomeSchooling,  Keiglets

    oh, the month ahead. and the month now.

    / April 28, 2023

    If I could draw a picture of me right now, what I feel like somewhere inside, it would probably look a little like some Monet version of me because I feel more like an impression lately than a solid shape. And I’d probably have my hands at my head, maybe pulling my hair in two directions and shouting, “THERE IS…

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    weekend ramble (fly tying edition)

    January 28, 2019

    share the good

    October 24, 2019

    Discipline of Gratitude

    February 12, 2019
  • Affiliate,  Field Trip,  Story

    Paris: Our Trip & Tips

    / April 4, 2023

    It didn’t begin with a lifelong goal of seeing the Eiffel Tower. It started with an email alert. “Low cost fairs from Asheville to Paris” It was an update from my Going account – the same account that helped me take my London to London for her graduation gift last year. It was back in October and the flight was…

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    Plus Plus (A Thanksgiving Version): A Timberdoodle Review

    November 19, 2019

    Dear Child,

    July 20, 2020

    how do you do it?

    September 4, 2019
  • Field Trip

    Guatemala: Day Two

    / March 8, 2023

    (Will you be patient with me if these posts take weeks?) It’s another senior season of BUSY. My first baby boy is about to graduate and I cannot allow myself to spend too much time pondering that just yet. And, if you’re counting, that leaves only TWO kids in high school. Our numbers game is weird lately. Back to Guatemala…

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    five finds friday (finn turns twelve, made for this podcast and mac & cheese)

    August 30, 2019

    My Friend Mary & The Beauty of Showing Up

    April 23, 2019

    five finds friday. (celebrating two years in our home & pleated skirts)

    August 21, 2020
  • Field Trip

    Guatemala: Day One

    / March 1, 2023

    It seems I’ve hardly stopped moving since our plane ride from Guatemala ended and London picked us up late that night at the Greenville airport. (Pretty sure I sat behind Pedro Pascal on one of our flights. I mean, okay. I’m not pretty sure. I’m just pretend sure. It looked like him. Sort of. I can’t explain why he’d be…

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    hi.

    December 18, 2019

    tick tock. a small choice.

    November 7, 2019

    this train of thought ….

    June 29, 2017
  • Piper Finn Willow

    friday afternoon thoughts.

    / February 17, 2023

    When I started composing this post in my head, I was in a MOOD and all of the ideas in my mind were very very funny to me. I think the mood has passed. Of course, that mood was likely induced by the physical funk I am still in post-Guatemala trip (I came home with a lovely sort of head…

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    Five Finds Friday.

    September 4, 2020

    How We Are All Connected: Navigators. Glen Eyrie. My Mother. Me. My Sons.

    September 23, 2019

    Mand Labs Lit: A Timberdoodle Review

    October 15, 2019
  • HomeLife

    here we go …

    / February 3, 2023

    Well February came up real fast on us now, didn’t it? Over the last few weeks I have: Lived life with five teenagers. Readjusted to having London home again as she begins local college classes. And by readjusted, I actually don’t really mean that. I love having her home and she’s been a fabulous help – dishes and meals and…

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    five finds friday: Dickens and Twists and a cake baker and a cuddler

    February 15, 2019

    Five Finds Friday (Saylor’s reading and Ryder got a haircut)

    September 18, 2020

    The Nomadic Professor: A Timberdoodle Review

    December 15, 2022
  • Bergen Hawkeye,  God's Pursuit of Me,  HomeLife,  HomeSchooling

    you can’t call it a mid-life crisis.

    / January 18, 2023

    I doubt I’m living until I’m 100. (And I’m mostly okay with that.) So I can’t fairly call All The Current Feelings mid-life related. In fact, it is possibly precisely because I recognize that I am no longer mid-life that I am feeling whatever it is I am feeling. Were those sentences helpful? Doubtful. Flannery O’Connor said, “I write because…

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    making music (and art) accessible

    February 10, 2020

    Stages & Seasons: From Diapers to Dissatisfaction

    November 16, 2022

    mid-week ramble. is that a thing?

    September 3, 2020
  • HomeLife

    the winter feels

    / January 11, 2023

    The thing about winter in South Carolina is that it’s not all that different from fall in South Carolina or spring in South Carolina, weather-wise. And that makes me sad. I need some snow. A crisp breeze. A forecast with low temperatures. A chill factor. I know I have chosen to live in the wrong part of the country to…

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    Five Finds Friday (teen drivers. the first egg.)

    January 15, 2021

    what whole 30 taught me

    February 27, 2019

    oh, the month ahead. and the month now.

    April 28, 2023
  • Field Trip

    Going to Guatemala

    / January 3, 2023

    Guess what word is hard to spell? Guatemala. I’ve looked it up and let autocorrect help me way too many times. I think I finally remember that there’s an E after “guat” even though apparently my brain is desperate for it to be an A. Despite that tricky-to-me spelling, Bergen and Piper and I are heading to Guatemala in February.…

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    five finds friday (berg keeps being funny, trip highlights and delicious drinks)

    May 21, 2021

    from the cabin: Bergen Hawkeye at Lost Valley

    June 25, 2019

    the burrow: a dining room tour

    May 15, 2019
  • HomeLife

    that magic moment

    / December 19, 2022

    Imagine you live in a place where snow is a rarity. Say, South Carolina, for example. And you somehow missed the news of the potential snow and the mad dash of Southerners to grab up every loaf of bread and gallon of milk as if we might actually be trapped in our homes by the snow. So there you are.…

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    This Week. Feeling ALL the Pressures.

    December 28, 2020

    A Heart’s Home: Lost Valley Ranch

    June 21, 2020

    Weekend Ramble: Les Mis, A Kitten & Daylight Savings Time

    March 9, 2020
  • Affiliate,  HomeSchooling

    The Nomadic Professor: A Timberdoodle Review

    / December 15, 2022

    You know the routine. This is a sponsored post. I received this product at no cost to test and to review. But that’s the end. The words and thoughts and opinions are completely my own. _________________ Just like ALL of my own life, homeschooling has shifted and changed in the seasons of our family’s life. I only have older students…

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    she’s right, he knows her name.

    December 3, 2019

    is this summer?

    May 28, 2020

    one of those . . . weeks

    September 8, 2021
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