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Ordinary work, which is what most of us do most of the time, is ordained by God every bit as much as is the extraordinary. All work done for God is spiritual work and therefore not merely a duty but a holy privilege.
- Elisabeth Elliot

HomeLife

Five Finds Friday (a song & a rug & senior photos)

It’s been a week of RAIN and work and heavy lifting in the parenting realm. But here we all are – Friday. Happy to have made it this far. funny…

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HomeLife, Otto Fox Wilder

five finds friday (funny kids, garish sofas, filthy rocks, twinkling lights)

But seriously – Friday AGAIN? This week there were birthday parties, cross country conditioning, teenage tears, education a-happening, some genuine love expressed by some of my kids toward one another,…

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HomeLife

love. (for a concert and a band.)

Last fall, my friend Karen texted me. “Buy tickets for this show.  You won’t regret it.” These words were followed by a link to purchase tickets to a show at…

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  • HomeLife

    How To Find Me Now

    / August 29, 2025

    Hello dear friends! There is a treasure trove of story here – photos and memories and bits and pieces of my heart. I’m still writing and sharing. But I’ve tried to make it easier for you (and certainly easier for me) on a new platform. It’s called Substack and you can find it right here. The writing is the same.…

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    Five Finds Friday (a song & a rug & senior photos)

    March 26, 2021

    … typing therapy …

    June 4, 2023

    Five Finds Friday (a whole lot of photos)

    November 6, 2020
  • Bergen Hawkeye,  HomeLife

    … typing therapy …

    / June 4, 2023

    I haven’t picked up a pen or logged into a post in over a month. Which, incidentally, means I have not really processed or worked through a solid feeling in about that long either. Who could? Who can? I have never understood people who say, “I have no regrets.” I HAVE A MILLION REGRETS. I regret wasted time and wasted…

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    today. (teens are wonderful wonderful too – PSA)

    July 28, 2021

    five finds friday (the one about writing a book and my daughter going to college)

    November 20, 2020
  • HomeLife,  HomeSchooling,  Keiglets

    oh, the month ahead. and the month now.

    / April 28, 2023

    If I could draw a picture of me right now, what I feel like somewhere inside, it would probably look a little like some Monet version of me because I feel more like an impression lately than a solid shape. And I’d probably have my hands at my head, maybe pulling my hair in two directions and shouting, “THERE IS…

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    Five Finds Friday (meatballs, Scrabble, really odd names for kids)

    January 31, 2020

    five finds friday: at home edition

    April 3, 2020

    hello out there.

    March 19, 2020
  • Affiliate,  Field Trip,  Story

    Paris: Our Trip & Tips

    / April 4, 2023

    It didn’t begin with a lifelong goal of seeing the Eiffel Tower. It started with an email alert. “Low cost fairs from Asheville to Paris” It was an update from my Going account – the same account that helped me take my London to London for her graduation gift last year. It was back in October and the flight was…

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    current plans. current mood.

    January 2, 2020
    Gatsby

    Five Finds Friday (puppy. black leggings. muu muus. apple cider.)

    November 12, 2021

    five finds friday: at home edition

    April 3, 2020
  • Field Trip

    Guatemala: Day Two

    / March 8, 2023

    (Will you be patient with me if these posts take weeks?) It’s another senior season of BUSY. My first baby boy is about to graduate and I cannot allow myself to spend too much time pondering that just yet. And, if you’re counting, that leaves only TWO kids in high school. Our numbers game is weird lately. Back to Guatemala…

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    five finds friday (funny kids, garish sofas, filthy rocks, twinkling lights)

    March 29, 2019

    five finds friday. (do you know what else starts with the letter f? flu.)

    March 6, 2020

    from the cabin: Bergen Hawkeye at Lost Valley

    June 25, 2019
  • Field Trip

    Guatemala: Day One

    / March 1, 2023

    It seems I’ve hardly stopped moving since our plane ride from Guatemala ended and London picked us up late that night at the Greenville airport. (Pretty sure I sat behind Pedro Pascal on one of our flights. I mean, okay. I’m not pretty sure. I’m just pretend sure. It looked like him. Sort of. I can’t explain why he’d be…

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    … a new dinner option

    June 14, 2021

    five finds friday (my weakness for hair products and my friends Jane & Walter and my kids reading classic novels)

    August 23, 2019

    Lists: The Only Way I Ever (Sometimes) Get Stuff Done

    August 26, 2020
  • Piper Finn Willow

    friday afternoon thoughts.

    / February 17, 2023

    When I started composing this post in my head, I was in a MOOD and all of the ideas in my mind were very very funny to me. I think the mood has passed. Of course, that mood was likely induced by the physical funk I am still in post-Guatemala trip (I came home with a lovely sort of head…

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    spring madness. it has descended upon us.

    April 21, 2021

    Q Bitz Solo: A Timberdoodle Review

    April 14, 2021

    holiday links.

    December 2, 2019
  • HomeLife

    here we go …

    / February 3, 2023

    Well February came up real fast on us now, didn’t it? Over the last few weeks I have: Lived life with five teenagers. Readjusted to having London home again as she begins local college classes. And by readjusted, I actually don’t really mean that. I love having her home and she’s been a fabulous help – dishes and meals and…

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    Plus Plus (A Thanksgiving Version): A Timberdoodle Review

    November 19, 2019

    Five Finds Friday (face cream, Community and Carlos)

    September 11, 2020

    what whole 30 taught me

    February 27, 2019
  • Bergen Hawkeye,  God's Pursuit of Me,  HomeLife,  HomeSchooling

    you can’t call it a mid-life crisis.

    / January 18, 2023

    I doubt I’m living until I’m 100. (And I’m mostly okay with that.) So I can’t fairly call All The Current Feelings mid-life related. In fact, it is possibly precisely because I recognize that I am no longer mid-life that I am feeling whatever it is I am feeling. Were those sentences helpful? Doubtful. Flannery O’Connor said, “I write because…

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    Five Finds Friday (tiny bags of bacon & I need a grits recipe for the Instant Pot)

    July 17, 2020

    Scary Close: A Book Review (& some feelings this book unearthed as well)

    May 13, 2019

    today. (teens are wonderful wonderful too – PSA)

    July 28, 2021
  • HomeLife

    the winter feels

    / January 11, 2023

    The thing about winter in South Carolina is that it’s not all that different from fall in South Carolina or spring in South Carolina, weather-wise. And that makes me sad. I need some snow. A crisp breeze. A forecast with low temperatures. A chill factor. I know I have chosen to live in the wrong part of the country to…

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    five finds friday (may is sort of mean, also there’s a lot about potatoes in this one)

    May 3, 2019

    hi.

    December 18, 2019

    five finds friday (dates with otto & beaded earrings & friends)

    November 8, 2019
  • Field Trip

    Going to Guatemala

    / January 3, 2023

    Guess what word is hard to spell? Guatemala. I’ve looked it up and let autocorrect help me way too many times. I think I finally remember that there’s an E after “guat” even though apparently my brain is desperate for it to be an A. Despite that tricky-to-me spelling, Bergen and Piper and I are heading to Guatemala in February.…

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    Five Finds Friday (this, that & the other, also blanket sweaters, food documentaries and college thoughts)

    January 18, 2019

    oh, the month ahead. and the month now.

    April 28, 2023

    five finds friday – (Congaree, more soup, another Otto saying & sunshine)

    April 12, 2019
  • HomeLife

    that magic moment

    / December 19, 2022

    Imagine you live in a place where snow is a rarity. Say, South Carolina, for example. And you somehow missed the news of the potential snow and the mad dash of Southerners to grab up every loaf of bread and gallon of milk as if we might actually be trapped in our homes by the snow. So there you are.…

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    swimming in the deep end

    October 29, 2019

    here we go ….

    May 22, 2019

    back to the grind . . .

    May 20, 2020
  • Affiliate,  HomeSchooling

    The Nomadic Professor: A Timberdoodle Review

    / December 15, 2022

    You know the routine. This is a sponsored post. I received this product at no cost to test and to review. But that’s the end. The words and thoughts and opinions are completely my own. _________________ Just like ALL of my own life, homeschooling has shifted and changed in the seasons of our family’s life. I only have older students…

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    Six Steps to Hiking & Adventuring With Kids

    July 3, 2019

    holiday links.

    December 2, 2019

    returning …

    June 4, 2019
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